06.10.08

Tuesday – Wrap Up

Posted in 2008 June Trip, Care and Repair, Pahinets, VBS at 7:43 pm by usnof

From: Karen Feathers
Sent: Tuesday, June 10, 2008 7:36 PM

Hey!
 
I’m hearing good things from the groups in Ukraine today concerning meetings with parents, administrators, and groups meeting with children!  God is so good and is faithful in opening doors to make things happen in the short time we are actually in Ukraine.  It is a blessing for all to give and many personal lessons are being learned that we will hear about upon the return of our loved ones.
 
Jason met with the director of the Rivne Baby House today to talk about the windows project and how to spend the $6000 that was raised to renovate and insulate another section of the baby house.  The director has decided to use plastic windows and also needs to renovate the outside cabana to put play equipment in, so more children can come out and play.  There will be money to do both projects, so he is pleased.
 
Kelly Marshall is reporting each day the news at Pahinets with the children.  I love reading her reports and am so excited about the participation they are having from the parents and children!!  I can’t wait to see the pictures!!
 
Rob and Jason report that things ran smoothly with VBS today.  Rob was touched that the children are so excited to see them and just run to meet them with open arms. 
 
I’ll ask you to pray for a very important meeting tomorrow morning at Pahinets with the parent group conference.  It will occur at 2:00 P.M./7:00 A.M. our time.  The topic will again tomorrow be advocacy.  Lyubov ( the director of the Ukrainian-American Birth Defects Program and a geneticist at the Omni Center Diagnostic Center-our dear friend and advocate for change) will be coming to speak to the parents with Jason about their need to advocate for more services for their children directly with the government.  Jason and Lyubov have a plan for us to continue to support additional services with adding a specialist to their program (a very needed therapist) for the period of one year through a grant that we will provide through funds we will raise.  During that time, the parents will need to meet and organize to petition the government to take over the cost of this position and implement other services, so their children can continue to be educated in public school.  The parents will need to take ownership of this process during the next year with the support of the Omni Center to help them organize.
 
Rob (my husband) has been asked to join this meeting with the parents and talk about services our children receive through the public school system.  He plans to talk to them as well about finding a parent advocate,  maybe a hired position for the Pahinets, who would be with the parents when they go to school to request services.  This person would also organize monthly meetings to discuss common issues related to their children and train parents on how to advocate for themselves.  The advocate would work on getting more fathers involved with the process and with their children.  He or she would also do home visits to break down barriers. Having a parent advocate for the center could provide a permanent resource for these people in Rivne and help coordinate available services. 
 
Please pray for Jason, Lyubov, and Rob tomorrow morning when you wake up.
 
On a final note, pray people are getting restful sleep to be refreshed for each day.  The sun goes down about 10:00 at night and comes up at 4:00 in the morning.  It takes awhile to adjust to the time changes and the food is wonderful, but different. 
 
More later…
 
Blessings,
Karen

Tuesday #2 – Special Pahinets Report

Posted in 2008 June Trip, Pahinets at 11:44 am by usnof

[I thought this was such a great report that it merited it's own top-level post. -JLM]

From: Kelly Marshall

Hi everyone,

I understand the heat wave will be ending shortly. Hope you all aren’t melting away.  :o )

Day two of the Pahinets day camp was a huge success. More children arrived today for a grand total of 50 children. My room had approximately 15; I never did get an accurate count because they kept on coming. Since our team is divided between five groups plus the parent trainings, we’re a little short staffed and I’d love a few more translators, but we’re making do and having fun. Plus, it gives me a chance to practice my Ukrainian. I’ve learned a lot. I know all my colors now, several animals, and I’m now learning my food. Today I was playing with a little boy in the dramatic play area and I was able to say, “Budlaska, ya hochu pomodori” which means “I want the tomato please.”  :o )

We introduced the children to water play this morning and they loved it! Actually that may be an understatement. Their reaction to shaving cream was equally exciting. Outside we’re playing with foam paddles and balloons as well as those velcro catch and throw toys. They’re like magic! They love them. The parents are having just as much fun exploring all our toys and gadgets.

The parent sessions are going rather well. We discussed advocacy this afternoon. Emily did a brief presentation defining advocacy and laying out steps on how to be an advocate. Mia followed up by telling stories of four children and their families, ranging in age, disability, and experience with the special education process/system. Then we broke the parents up into small groups based on their child’s age and I provided them with discussion questions to apply to the scenario just presented, and then to get them thinking about what their next step would be with their child. Each group seemed to be having in depth conversations. I know the conversation in my group was fantastic. The parents really seem to be ready to take the necessary strides to advocate for their children, or at least find the most appropriate and beneficial school placement.

Tomorrow Rob Feathers, one of the founding members of USNOF, will be speaking to the parents about his experience advocating for his two girls with Down syndrome (one is adopted from Ukraine). They really need to hear from a fellow parent who has been in their shoes, especially a father. We’re also hoping to have a special guest, Lyubov, who is the director of the Ukrainian American Birth Defects program, and one of the behind the scenes advocates for the Pahinets. She’s received some interesting feedback from the government and the parents really need to hear what she has to say. Everyone else has done as much as they can, and now the government says they won’t do anything until they hear directly from the parents. Our hope is that after this week the parents are ready to speak and be heard.

I fall in love with this cause all over again every time I’m here. It’s just such a passionate crowd with sincere interest and a desire to do better. I’m grateful to be a part of it.

Thanks for all your prayers!  Love, Kelly

Tuesday

Posted in 2008 June Trip at 9:00 am by usnof

Please keep all the teams in prayer as they continue their work.  It sounds like everything is going great!  Don’t be discouraged if you haven’t heard from your friend/family - while it may seem to us like they have been gone a long time, it’s only their third day in Rivne, second day of ministry and projects. 

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